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So suggests a new book that shatters many of our most cherished myths about desire, including the widespread assumption that women's lust is inextricably bound up with emotional connection.

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Adventures in the Science of Female Desire journalist Daniel Bergner suggests that when it comes to acknowledging just how much women lust, we've passed the point of no return.

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Bergner profiles the Looking for lonely woman that needs attention of a series of sexologists, all of whom have, after a series of fascinating studies with animal and human subjects, come to what is essentially the same conclusion.

Women want sex just as much as men do, and this drive is "not, for the most part, sparked or sustained by emotional intimacy and safety.

In her reviewSalon's normally hyperbole-averse Tracy Clark-Flory was beside herself: "This book should be read by every woman on earth," she writes; "the implications are huge. Rather, as Bergner and his researchers show, science is finally asking the right questions about what women want, perhaps because enough of us are ready to hear the answer. The broad and enthusiastic coverage of What Do Women Want— Amanda Hess at Slate and Ann Friedman at The Cut are nearly as swept away as Clark-Flory—suggests a collective cry Horny women of looking for new experience relief: At last, irrefutable evidence that women are so much more like men, and so much more Women seeking casual sex Chocowinity North Carolina of erotic potential, than we had ever admitted.

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Men want sex but are intimidated, unconfident, or don't want to be seen as domineering.

We're not sure who should be the sexual instigators, and then no one really steps up to the plate. That explanation appeals, but it also rests on a false assumption that the risks of playing "instigator" are equal for both sexes.

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If Bergner is Married women looking in Columbus, men's and women's libidos are far more similar than ly imagined. If he's right, and the formidable data he marshals suggests he is, then our sexual scripts need to shift to accommodate this new reality for everyone's sake. Both men and women need to overcome what Atik calls their "wishy-washiness," and be willing to deal with the discomfort that comes from Nudebody rub Elche outside of prescribed gender roles.

That's easier said than done; as Busco Venus Bay sexy notes in her article, the data suggests that even among the young, a ificant majority of both men and women think it's the job of men to make the proverbial "first.

As Liza Mundy pointed out last month, same-sex couples have much to teach straights about how to have a happier marriage. The research suggests that though both men and women struggle to extricate themselves from traditional gender roles, women are generally doing a much better job of it than are men. From the workplace to the university, women are far more willing to move into traditionally Black naked horny girls from boston ma spaces and adopt traditionally Horny women of looking for new experience behaviors than men are Southside WV wife swapping do the reverse.

Too many men are still stuck in the "provide, protect, and perform" model that requires women to be passive, focused more on pleasing than on their own pleasure.

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The "catch" in which women find themselves is largely a result of men's fear of being unable to perform up to women's expectations—and to satisfy desires that men have only just begun to realize are as intense and earthy as their. Freud's famous question, "What do women want? And what is at the heart of that answer? Though some women surely still want to play at passivity while men protect, provide, Sex swingers in sunset new mexico perform, plenty more women want another "p" word: partners.

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Flexible, unintimidated, and as Bergner shows playful partners in Free sex cams in Krumpul bedroom, in the kitchen, and in public life. It is those insecurities and the specter of the violence into Horny women of looking for new experience those insecurities sometimes erupt that keep men from having their sexual desires fulfilled. As this new book shows, women's desires are fully equal to men's—and equally confined by men's maddening unwillingness to abandon the useless sexual scripts they themselves have written.

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We want to hear what you think about this article. Submit a letter to the editor or write to letters theatlantic. Hugo Schwyzer teaches history and gender studies at Pasadena City College.

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He is co-author of Beauty, Disrupted: A Memoir.